you're not on every whisper, you're not on every corner

people are strange. things that i think are easy to do and easy to say other people can't do. but having said that, let me add that it's easy to see other people's mistakes and missteps rather than your own. i can see when someone is hurting but it's easier to be in denial and i know what that's like. but it's not worth the wasted time and energy to convince yourself that the obvious is not that. but everybody learns in their own way, in their own time, i can't adjust the learning curve or the outcome. i just hope i'm wrong.